ISSUES
2006
MONDAY JUNE 19
For Trustees of the General Seminary, The Consultation asks you to vote for:
Lay Persons
Rebecca Clark Marjorie
Christie
Priests
James Kodera Yamily Bass-Choate
For Executive Council,
The Consultation asks you to vote for:
Lay Persons
Hisako Beasley Bruce Garner
Anita George Angela Helt
Robert McGhee
Priests
Miguelina Espinal Winnie Varghese
TODAY--
OPEN MEETING
of The Consultation
in Room D242 in the
Convention
Center
from 12:30 to 1:30
No food or drink, please!
The Bonds of Affection
In a Consultation Open Meeting, someone said, “I want to affirm the bonds of
affection but not to institutionalize them.” It inspired a chain of thought about relationships and listening. Once
a relationship has reached the point where everything has to be negotiated, whatever may remain, it is usually the case that
affection has gone. More often than not the breakdown actually came some time before when one party stopped listening to the
other and giving the loving attention characteristic of affection. The parties may be able to rebuild the relationship and
the trust on which affection is based, but that cannot be accomplished by rules and requirements, and even less with ultimatums.
Is this descriptive of the Anglican Communion now?
If it is, the question becomes who stopped listening? When?
Ron Miller
Surely the LORD was in this place!
Friday night’s packed, festive Integrity Eucharist at Trinity Church was marked by excellent
music and liturgy, by a procession of dozens of vested lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered clergy, by the presence of
numerous LGBT Episcopalians and their allies from throughout the Church – and by one other thing – the unmistakable
presence of the Holy Spirit.
The Spirit was, in fact, the focus of New Hampshire Bishop Gene
Robinson’s sermon. The Holy Spirit is still speaking to all of us, even to those who have been excluded, to those who
told us we were “abomination” and who subjected us to insults and injustice. While we have a responsibility to
oppose injustice, and to protest when we are treated unjustly or abused, Bishop Robinson said there is one more thing we must
do about those who oppose us – we must “love them anyway.”
Bishop Robinson’s
voice cracked with emotion several times, and the congregation was also deeply moved by the sermon and other parts of the
service. The overflow crowd made it necessary to offer additional seating with a video feed, and Robinson not only specifically
greeted those watching him on video during his sermon, but personally served the bread to each person in the overflow seating.
The Rev. Susan Russell was presider, and the Bishop of Southern Ohio, the Rt. Rev. Kenneth L. Price Jr. gave his blessing.
There have been a lot of worship opportunities at General Convention 2006, but this one seemed
especially important to those attending. At a time when a few have considered LGBT Episcopalians to be expendable –
a readily available sacrifice to appease censorious voices in the Anglican Communion – this large congregation demonstrated
through their enthusiastic participation, their applause, their laughter and their not infrequent tears that they have no
intention of slipping quietly away or tossing aside the insights gained from thirty years of struggle for full and complete
inclusion in the life of the Episcopal Church. There was a sense that we were there not only for ourselves but for the benefit
of the rest of the Church.
Some people regard the issues surrounding LGBT participation
in the Church simply as questions of civil rights – of things that certain people are asking that the Church “do
for” them. Certainly there are things we need from the Church – but the Church needs our witness and our labor
and our talents. The Church has always relied on what we have to give, even when it did not acknowledge us for who we are.
But now – in the first part of the 21st Century, we are a good advertisement for the Church in an alienated
and unreconciled world. One priest I know found that after he had come out and was known as a gay man, people in spiritual
need would seek him out for just that reason – not because they were gay themselves, but because they figured that a
Church that would welcome him would welcome them; a Church that could love him could love them.
This is why we testify to what we know, what we ourselves have experienced. As Bishop Robinson said Friday night,
we have the mission and the responsibility to share the great gifts we have been given with the world.
Bob Van Keuren
A Gift from Vermont
If you are
worried about how The Episcopal Church might look if General Convention authorized the blessing of same sex unions, then the
Diocese of Vermont has a resource that will answer your questions and allay your fears.
The Diocese of Vermont is in a unique position to
offer such information because in the summer of 2000, a new Vermont civil union law took effect that, for the first time,
enabled same sex couples to enter into legal covenants “conferring the rights and responsibilities previously reserved
for opposite-gendered couples through marriage.” The law authorized members of the clergy to perform civil unions, and
Vermont Episcopalians in same sex relationships immediately looked to their faith community to do so.
Mary Adelia McLeod, then bishop of Vermont, “informed the clergy that those who chose to celebrate and bless
civil unions could do so provided that counseling precede the civil union, and that the marriage rite from the Book of Common
Prayer not be used.” Bishop McLeod’s successor, Bishop Thomas C. Ely, appointed a task force to help the diocese
and the larger church “find a way through this conversation that is affirming of the full inclusion of gay and lesbian
persons in the mission and ministry of The Episcopal Church and of their ministries that are already so much a part of who
we are as the Episcopal Church here in the Diocese of Vermont and beyond.”
A
Report to the Bishop and People of the Episcopal Diocese of Vermont from the Task Force on the Blessing of Persons Living
in Same-Gender Relationships
was issued in June of 2004.
The Task Force recommended a unified diocesan policy on Holy Matrimony and Holy Unions that required
“1. One member of the couple be a baptized person involved in the life of the church; 2. Thorough preparation precede
the ceremony; 3. A Declaration of Intention be signed that outlines the church’s expectations regarding the characteristics
such unions should exhibit; 4. A marriage or civil union license be obtained for clergy to officiate at a liturgy of Holy
Matrimony or Holy Union; and 5. Liturgies or liturgical outlines authorized by the Episcopal Church for Holy Matrimony or
those provided in this report for Holy Unions be used.”
The report also carefully outlines
the pastoral care for those who have previously been in a marriage or civil union and states that “permission for third
or subsequent marriages or unions will be granted only in rare cases” and only after certain rigorous counseling steps
have been taken. The most helpful parts of the report are the description of the approach the Task Force took in tackling
‘head, heart and gut” issues, including the “ick” response factor so common in discussions of sexual
intimacy; and its approach to theological considerations. The chapter on the way Anglicans “do theology” may be
the best and most succinct discussion of the topic I have seen.
So find a member of the Vermont deputation [pages in the House
of Deputies can help you do that] and ask how you can get a copy. It offers the perfect prescription for the relief of anxiety
– good information based in thorough research and several years of lived experience.
Katie Sherrod
Fair Trade at General Convention
It is getting
to be that time of General Convention to look for gifts and items to take home. The following vendors are either members of
the Fair Trade Federation or sell products which adopt fair trade practices of just pay for artists and craftspersons, invest
in community development in Third World countries and follow fair labor practices.
Far
East Handicraft (member of the Fair Trade Federation)
Shenaini (FTF application in process)
The Episcopal Church Women,
Diocese of Chicago International Outreach Project
Bishop’s Blend Coffee (fair trade coffee) at The Episcopal Bookstore
Andino Fibers
Colores de Pueblo
Colors of Life, Africa
Tree of Life imports from Latin
America
Threads of Hope
Buying fair trade supports the Millennium Development
Goals (www.e4gr.org). To find more about the Fair Trade
Federation, Google Fair Trade Federation.
Dianne Aids